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Informal education at its best. Eden dumped the entire bowl of nuts (mixed with broken shells and dried holly leaves) onto the floor. It was great fun, indicated by the attending squeal and laughter. I cheerfully explained that now she needs to pick them up and I showed her a couple of my best cheerful picking-up moves and placed two nuts in the bowl. She cheerfully began, then she learned a life lesson we’ve all learned (several times in various ways): it’s a lot easier to dump out nuts than to pick them up. I went back to my dinner preps and after a bit of picking up, she came back to me with a frustrated, “Holp, mama”. I “holped” her by taking her back over to her mess and saying, “If you make the mess, you have to clean it up.” She made a face indicating she didn’t want to. I laughed and said, “Uh-uh, you have to pick it up as cheerfully as you made it!”. We practiced cheerful again, laughing together. Then we showed each other what our ugly, frustrated, grumpy faces look like again—just to show how we’re not going to pick them up (that’s when I took the picture of her below; she’s showing me her grumpy face). Then we practiced cheerful again. And then she picked up the rest all by herself, cheerfully.
The audio link below is a sermon on Colossians 3:20 by Pastor Carl Robbins of Woodruff Road, PCA—a great one for parents. If you don’t have the time to listen to it (or better yet, to sit down with your brood and listen to it), the three points are that obedience has three Biblical aspects and if they aren’t all present, it isn’t really obedience at all; it’s disobedience. Obedience is (1) prompt (2) complete (3) and joyful. He gives vivid Biblical illustrations. We listened to this sermon the other day as a timely refresher course and then we all practiced what isn’t obedience (to mock it), then practiced what is obedience. I like to keep in mind that my own obedience to God needs to be the same: am I disciplining my children cheerfully? promptly? completely? or just when I’m really irritated, personally insulted, finally fed up, or at my convenience?
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